I've been writing about relationships for nearly 10 years now, from both my personal and professional experiences. I'm an expert on the subject because for far too many years, the only guys who held any sort of intrigue for me were the ones I couldn't quite have. I didn't want the ones who were head over heels in love with me and willing to do anything for me. I wanted to want them and everything they offered, but I just didn't.
And we have all dated our fair share of emotionally unavailable people. Dating an emotionally unavailable man can be like beating your head against a wall. A tall, dark, and handsome wall. Women all over the world have found themselves victims of emotionally unavailable men in relationships. According to Meyers :.
Does it feel as though he will never be able to emote? Do you want to be with him but you feel as though he is just too emotionally unavailable? Are you curious if such a man can ever be won over? If you find yourself in love with a man that seems so far out of reach, you may be happy to know that there are ways to change that fate.
Here's how to inoculate ourselves against negative ones. Verified by Psychology Today. In my book, I use the term "emotional chasing" because that's exactly what it is: a chase.