Before you can post or reply in these forums, please join our online community. I am just here to vent, I don't have anyone to talk to in real life but I need to put it out there. I am too ugly to be loved. I have gone my whole life I am 20 without a single guy ever caring about me.
It's a pretty well known fact that most women - attractive women - will happily date ugly men. We see it on TV -- in shows like King of Queens , though I would probably argue that Kevin James is kind of a stud, and really, that's exactly the point I plan on making-- and we see it in our friends. There are plenty of studies on this strangely anti-Darwinian phenomenon - studies which I think don't answer the question as well as I, with my oh-so-steadfast opinions, can, do, and will. So let's talk about this. Let's talk about what exactly is wrong with these conventionally attractive men, and let's talk about what is right about these, well, conventionally un -attractive men. Anecdotal evidence aside, I know for a fact that I don't find "hot" men attractive. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule.
It started as soon as I got on the high school bus. Did they think I needed to be told what I looked like? I had growths and coffee-coloured marks all over my face and body. It was a genetic condition called neurofibromatosis type 1. No one else in my family had it — just me.
Hello all you beautiful urchins of impending doom, and welcome to Ask Dr. NerdLove , the dating advice column with the skill of gymnastics and the kill of karate. Side note: I have no problem approaching women, let alone asking them out. That being said, I just went fuck it, and became friends while perusing my own endeavors.