You want the best shot at getting your husband to come back to you. When things are bad in a relationship, it seems like all the good stuff has been pushed out by arguments, anger, and sadness. But you got married for a reason. If you can focus on those good feelings instead of the bad one, you can nurture them and make them grow. Every couple is different. One sign that he still has feelings is that he still does the little things for you.
They were engaged after just a handful of reunions shoehorned between his tours. As for my husband and I, we met at an airport in the Philippines in January of I borrowed his paper, a USA Today ; we started talking and discovered that after our first leg, we were heading to the same city on different planes. He tried to chat me up mid-air, but the flight attendant made him go back to his seat when turbulence hit. We lost each other at immigration. Still, he tracked me down to the radio station where I worked and we moved in together five months later. We were married by August.
Maybe I never did. Here's exactly how to recover the good you had with your husband in the very beginning: Click To Tweet. Whether he moved out or found someone else or both, that was an incredibly painful betrayal. It was the worst!
My husband and I have been separated for 18 months. I love him dearly and want to work on trying to make our marriage work, but so far it is to no avail. I know there is someone else in the picture which he will not admit but I never would have thought our marriage was in that type of danger, and he never said a thing. I do pray and ask God to repair my marriage and family. I know that if I give up, I let the devil get the best of me.